Questions and Answers

Is it okay to “look at-but don’t touch” attractive people of the opposite sex once you’re married?

This is not God’s best for our lives and the direction this leads in is not a good one. (Matthew 5:28) The eyes are the window to the soul and if we are indulging a lustful eye, we’re not honoring God or our spouse. We must guard our hearts against any opportunity to fall into sin. (Proverbs 4:23) This is a dangerous sin we can easily deceive ourselves into justifying as harmless.  The good news is, God can help us bring this under submission.  If this is an area you’re struggling in, bring it to God in prayer and He will help you when you’re tempted.

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How can I be submissive to my husband if he’s not making good choices and is not following God?

Submission is truly a matter of choice, very similar to forgiveness. Just like Jesus extended His love towards us while we were yet sinners, (Romans 5:8) submission is extended even if not deserved and not earned.  It is through our Godly behavior that others can see the love of Christ living through us. Continue praying and asking God for the grace to walk in love while extending honor and submission and don’t grow weary in well doing, this brings God glory.

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Can and should a relationship be restored after adultery? What about after multiple affairs?

A relationship can definitely be restored after adultery, if there is true repentance and change in behavior. With God all things are possible, and it is very possible for God to heal the wounds from this and restore trust, love and unity in the relationship. However, a foundation of true forgiveness and seeking God in the relationship must be in place for it to work.
There is a difference between an act of adultery and someone who is an adulterer. Careful prayer and guidance should be sought after when multiple affairs have occurred.

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